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The Book Club :
Anyone read “Break Free From the Affair” by Dr. Huizenga?

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 Lbshop101225 (original poster new member #61590) posted at 7:34 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

It pops up everywhere with links to purchase the ebook on tons of the affair recovery sites I’ve seen. Tons of people say it’s fantastic and very helpful, and the premise of it seems like it would help, but it’s $50 for a short ebook. So I was wondering if it’s actually worth that purchase price? Or is there a way to download it cheaper?

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sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 5:17 AM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017

I’d never heard of it...struggled to find reviews of the book that didn’t involve a kickback for purchasing through a site. That’s an awfully hefty cost consdering there’s no production costs. That makes it suspect in my mind. You have the info to help people heal and end affairs and yet you charge a hefty price for people to access it?

My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

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Freebygrace ( member #42484) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, December 6th, 2017

I have not bought the ebook yet but I find his articles fascinating. Especially the chart with the seven reasons people have A’s. I believe my spouse is in the “I can’t say No” or “ I don’t want to say No” group. Both have a high rate of relapse A.

I found their form of 180 which is called charging neutral. But they have other theories like “consequence ‘em”. They are interesting but at this point, I am just done. I’m in the “tiger doesn’t change his stripes”. Mode.

I have studied Adultery way more than I ever wanted inthe last 17 years. But i never saw these theories before so it may be worth it. What i have read so far seems legit and helpful.

Me: BS 49
Him: WH 52 ( lane444) married 26 years. 16 kids from 28-2 years old
OW #1 my friend, 1st year of marriage dday 3/17
OW #2 his ex gf in 1993, he claims ONS Dday 10/17
OW #3 my BFF NC broken 2x ( after 17 years of false R)
DIVORCIED

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