Topic is Sleeping.
shewp (original poster new member #82644) posted at 2:36 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
Guys Ive been NC for 19 days and tonight that no good cheating MF called me at 9pm, just last night he was shacked up with ow. Now Youre calling me Friday night at 9pm. Here is the fun part you guys, you want to know what I did. Nothing. Not a F****** thing. Ignored.
Nothing feels better than treating them as if they dont exist.
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 2:46 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
No contact equals no new hurts. Your anger is spot on when you see how he operates. You are still early on your journey. Take care of you. Good luck.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
Good for you.
Don’t fall for his "I only want you when it’s convenient for me" mentality.
Block his # so he cannot get through. Permanently.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 4:13 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
Awesome!!! Nothing hurts the little ego like NC. Keep it up
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Kb82 ( member #70826) posted at 4:42 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:05 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 8:23 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
That’s the way to do it! Stay strong!
BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!
BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 1:35 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023
Not answering, not being available--that makes people wonder.
Why aren't they picking up?
What are they doing?
What are they thinking?
Who are they with?
Good. Let them be uncomfortable. Let them squirm. Let them know they aren't controlling your moves in any way. Let them know that they can't dictate the communication schedule.
Be at peace yourself.
Good for you!!!
"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]
Topic is Sleeping.
