SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, June 9th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:26 PM on Thursday, June 10th, 2010
bump. 
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:03 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2010
Bummped for ItIsNotMyFault . . .
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, June 14th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 4:41 AM on Saturday, June 19th, 2010
Bumped for the bumpy riders.
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
confused13 ( member #28819) posted at 3:38 AM on Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010
Thanks to all who bumped this up for all us newbies.....
BS-me-30
WH-him-36
Dday-4/30/2010 Almost Sexual
Married-5years
Together-almost 14 years.
Best Friends- 18 years
Kids-daughter 17-his 1st marriage
son-12 1/2-ours
R-dont know
S-8/25/10 mutual
Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:29 AM on Friday, June 25th, 2010
justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 7:37 PM on Saturday, June 26th, 2010
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:20 PM on Monday, June 28th, 2010
bumping 
annb ( member #22386) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, July 2nd, 2010
bumping again.
lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, July 5th, 2010
cuz I needed a reminder...
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 4:31 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2010
For the new folks. So sorry you needed us.
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 9:34 PM on Thursday, July 8th, 2010
Bumped for the newly broken hearted.
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
CluelessGuy ( member #28491) posted at 1:51 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2010
BH - now 48
Divorced - Nov. 26, 2012
HippyQueen ( member #29055) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2010
Thank you. I'm new to this forum but not to the broken heart. I really needed this.
And bumping to the top.
Update: My husband passed away on 9/21/12. I've been on an emotional roller coaster since.
BS45 (Me)
STBXWH49
M- 2/14/87
2 sons, 19 & 23 YO
3/1/11 - heading for D.
6/4/11 R- Turned out to be false.
7/29/11 another D-day and decision
ob-la-de ( member #23735) posted at 4:42 PM on Sunday, July 18th, 2010
punky ( member #12233) posted at 11:55 PM on Sunday, July 18th, 2010
bumping for Songinmyheart.
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2010
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
JustKeepSwimmig ( member #19269) posted at 2:14 AM on Friday, July 23rd, 2010
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
