Betrayal
Hi all , today is the day I start living my life on my own . 15 years married . It's been a hard marriage . We lost my husband's son 8 yrs ago to cancer . I have a son the same age from
A previous relationship. He's now 23 yrs old ( they were the same age ) During our marriage we tried to have a child of our own but after a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy that lost me my tube we came to the conclusion that we couldn't have any . I thought that we were doing ok , my son had gone to university and we had bought a new home and were happy. In March this year my husband admitted to joining a co - parenting site where he'd met 2 lesbians that wanted a sperm donor. 3 yrs on ...he has a son 😔 . He's been seeing this little boy during these last few years and also paying towards his upkeep as well as buying gifts etc . I feel betrayed, deceived and lied to ..He's kept this from me for 4 yrs . I know he didn't actually have intercourse with the female but it's just as bad in my eyes, he intended to make a life that didn't include me ! Today he's moved out . He's pleaded with me to forgive him but how can I move on if I can't accept the past 😔
42 comments posted: Friday, September 2nd, 2022
