BW 63WH 65DD 12/01/2023M 43Together 48
WS Living with a secret
To all the WS's here who kept their betrayal a secret for years and years, how did it feel? How did you live from day to day for 20 30 40+ yrs knowing that your marriage was built on betrayal/deception/lie/shame/guilt. That the person you vowed to love and be faithful too didn't have a clue. Trusted you. Did you become the perfect partner or were you filled with such self-loathing that you held back and were never 100% vested? How did it affect you? There isn't much written on how secret keeping destroys the secret keeper. Appreciate your thoughts.
2 comments posted: Thursday, March 7th, 2024