1 year anniversary of D day is almost here

How did you handle this day? I feel like I am already a huge mess and going over every text in my head that I know was happening on this exact day last year. My husbands EA was shirt, he worked with her at a second job a few times a month and only text with her for about 3 weeks, 2 that became inappropriate. They had been working closely together for about 3 months leading up to finally starting to text. I have all the phone records, proof and text and from their text that it never got physical.

There has been zero contact since I found out, he quit the job and has been remorseful and 1000% transparent. I still have a lot of anger some days though and don’t know how I will handle d day. It is also my birthday in a few days and he was in the thick of texting during this time period so I honestly don’t even want to celebrate.

This past year honestly has been great, we have grown closer, put more effort into us, fought less besides breakdowns about the EA, gone on more getaways, I just sometimes get pissed bc I don’t know why it took her to make us better.

I am just ready for the pain to go away and the thought of her to go away. We do live in the same town but luckily neither of us have ran into her.

Any advice on how you handled d day anniversary? Together? Self care day? In bed crying? Celebrating you fought together and made it to the year mark?

4 comments posted: Tuesday, January 14th, 2025