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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:16 AM on Tuesday, January 19th, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:25 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 8:55 PM on Wednesday, February 17th, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 9:26 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2016

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posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 7486440
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:57 PM on Monday, March 21st, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:35 PM on Sunday, April 3rd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:00 PM on Sunday, April 10th, 2016

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30400   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7525517
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Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, April 23rd, 2016

bumping

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

posts: 1076   ·   registered: Dec. 29th, 2014
id 7536605
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 6:59 PM on Tuesday, April 26th, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 3:26 AM on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 10:41 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2016

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Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2687   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7548370
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Dontholien ( member #32632) posted at 11:03 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2016

Thank you for the bump, i really needed to read this today.

Me 29 (B) Him 30 (EXW)
4 years of DDays,numerous AP, PA&EA
"Happy" R for 3 years, he proposed, we set a wedding date 01/14/17 -cancelled
Discovered A#????? with COW 5/18/16
Discovered more OW, drink, gambling, cocaine.
Now loving life :)

posts: 186   ·   registered: Jun. 29th, 2011   ·   location: uk
id 7548385
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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 10:30 PM on Wednesday, May 11th, 2016

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Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

posts: 4131   ·   registered: Apr. 12th, 2013
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:36 AM on Thursday, May 26th, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7566204
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, June 3rd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, June 8th, 2016

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Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
id 7576678
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:53 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2016

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30400   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7582693
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:23 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2016

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8372   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7588368
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