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The Book Club :
You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay

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 resilientme (original poster member #48465) posted at 3:31 AM on Friday, January 1st, 2016

I was wondering what y'all thoughts are about the book. I purchased the audible but I fall asleep/get bored when I play it.

I love the affirmations but positive thoughts healing cancer? I know I haven't read the entire book or listened to the entire tape... Maybe I'm dismissing it right away and missing the point?

BS: 29 working on healing
WS: prostitutes/anonymous encounters, dry drunk
Dday: June 19, 2015
Filed for D, little to no contact

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brokenpromises ( member #49668) posted at 6:10 PM on Thursday, February 11th, 2016

I read part of that, and felt that a lot of the affirmations seemed great and potentially powerful. But I believe in looking at the whole picture. If you are desperately trying to change your life or overcome something, setting the intention to change and telling yourself something positive and uplifting is not enough. Just like having a remorseful WS isn't enough for a BS to heal. Lots of other components take part.

I like another book by her called Heal Your Body that is basically just a quick go-to guide for affirmations for different ailments. While I stand firm on my previous opinions, I do think there is power in self affirmations in a lot of circumstances.

Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (30) (dontlosehope)
DDay 1: 8/10/15
DDay 2: 9/18/15
Married 2011
3 yr old daughter
Attempting R.
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"It always seems impossible until it's done." Nelson Mandela

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Oh the Irony ( member #12354) posted at 12:27 AM on Friday, March 4th, 2016

I dislike this book very much.

I love affirmations in general and do believe that our thoughts can impact our health, but this takes it to an extreme that excludes other realities. I find it very sick person blaming--like if you hadn't thought x you wouldn't have y.

D-day Sept. 15, 2006.
Divorced.

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Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 10:19 PM on Sunday, March 6th, 2016

I have this book and find it insightful . I'm not sure I would like the audio.

Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.

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