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Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
on a USB drive I have never seen. Not sure who they are for but clearly not me.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:00 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
I'm so sorry.
Are you planning to do some investigating or are you going to confront her about the pictures?
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Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 2:03 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Not sure. Kind of scared to confront her. I know that’s pathetic. Just need someone to chat with about it. Embarrassed to tell anyone I know.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:06 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
I understand being afraid to confront. When I discovered my H was exchanging texts and phone calls with someone I felt like throwing up. I needed the truth but was afraid to find out.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 2:08 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
I hope I’m just being paranoid but it was a lot of pics. Nothing in the act. Wondeting if any guys have experienced this.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Is the USB in your possession or do you have copies of the pictures? Might be a good idea in case it disappears.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 2:49 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Are they recent? What is your gut telling you? Has her behavior or attitude towards you changed?
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 2:50 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Some recent some not as recent. Idk really. She hasn’t been acting any different.
Legatus ( member #79152) posted at 3:11 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Does it appear she’s taking the photos herself or having someone else take them? Do you recognize where they are being taken? Sometimes the pictures have locations and date time stamps. I’d be looking for a pattern of some sort. It seems odd they’d be saved on a thumb drive opposed to a phone. It almost makes me think she’s selling them. Just total speculation though.
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 3:13 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Legatus ( member #79152) posted at 3:17 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
I don’t think so. I think you have to have an upgraded membership or a certain number of posts for that.
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 3:18 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 3:19 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Legatus ( member #79152) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
It’s not letting me. Maybe you should try PMing me, but putting the info and questions on this post might be more beneficial. You’ll get more out of the members in terms of advice and support.
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 3:26 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Not letting me pm you. Most look like selfies some posing maybe but hard to tell.
OhItsYou ( member #84125) posted at 3:27 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Don’t confront just yet. Spend more time digging for more evidence before giving yourself up. In the meantime, eyes open, mouth shut.
Btay11 (original poster new member #85372) posted at 3:30 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Want to see if someone could look at some of the pics and tell me if I’m being paranoid.
Legatus ( member #79152) posted at 10:50 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
So, nothing too racey? Maybe they are just a bunch of pictures of her where she feels like she looks good. I’d go through all of them to see if there’s anyone else in the pictures. I’m hesitant to receive and open files from an unknown source. Sorry, you just can’t be too careful.
WB1340 ( member #85086) posted at 12:33 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2024
Right click on a pic, go to Details, look for the date stamp.
D-day April 4th 2024. WW was sexting with a married male coworker. Started R a week later, still ongoing...
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