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Tactical Primer by SerJR

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Last post by Liveandletotherslive at 7:30 PM on Monday, June 1st, 2026 Total messages: 947

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Another Great Post for Newbies to read by mchercheur

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Last post by Liveandletotherslive at 7:27 PM on Monday, June 1st, 2026 Total messages: 235

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Newbies...Important Information - Please Read by SI Staff

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Last post by Deeply Scared at 1:54 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2007 Total messages: 35

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The difference between suspecting and later knowing by ButterflyInProgress

Last post by BackfromtheStorm at 8:12 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 14

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Newly BS - help by Recentlybs

Last post by ButterflyInProgress at 7:54 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 11

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"It meant nothing and has nothing to do with you" by ShockedShattered

Last post by BackfromtheStorm at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 9

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The Day the Ground Disappeared — A Survival Manual for Betrayed Men (Looking for Feedback) by Gemmy

Last post by sisoon at 5:26 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 12

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Betrayed by husband by Liveandletotherslive

Last post by Letmebefrank at 3:35 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 13

 

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Trying to keep calm, understanding and be kind, but I'm so hurt. by petecarparts

Last post by Papercoversrock at 1:06 PM on Tuesday, June 2nd, 2026 Total messages: 16

 

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The Simplified 180 by SerJR

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Last post by Liveandletotherslive at 7:26 PM on Monday, June 1st, 2026 Total messages: 167

 

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It Was Never Just Infidelity. It Was Character. by RisingEverytime

Last post by BearlyBreathing at 4:52 PM on Monday, June 1st, 2026 Total messages: 3

 

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It's been nearly a week by Smokey15

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Last post by Starant at 5:21 AM on Monday, June 1st, 2026 Total messages: 58

 

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I am back here after 18 years… by inevitableRBNY

Last post by inevitableRBNY at 11:13 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 5

 

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Will he regret it? by Inawe

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Last post by Inawe at 6:41 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 22

 

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This feels debilitating at best by AnxiousAvoidant

Last post by WB1340 at 4:16 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 11

 

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The Husband Everyone Else Saw by RisingEverytime

Last post by RisingEverytime at 3:31 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 6

 

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A Cheater Who Swears He Will Change, But Isn't Because He Got Caught by RisingEverytime

Last post by RisingEverytime at 3:28 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 10

 

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He Didn’t Make Mistakes. He Made Choices. by RisingEverytime

Last post by RisingEverytime at 3:26 PM on Friday, May 29th, 2026 Total messages: 3

 

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Ptsd 24 years later, tons of new information, how do I get through this? by Unofficial

Last post by ButterflyInProgress at 7:23 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2026 Total messages: 11

 

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Now he doesn’t want to try by Starant

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Last post by Starant at 9:58 PM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2026 Total messages: 48

 

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Only Fans by Notts2026

Last post by Icedover84 at 4:01 PM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2026 Total messages: 4

 

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Years of Infidelity by peaceandcalm

Last post by Letmebefrank at 1:04 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2026 Total messages: 11

 

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Before You Say Reconcile... by Fighting2Survive

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Last post by sisoon at 4:18 PM on Monday, May 25th, 2026 Total messages: 594

 

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Great Posts for Newbies to Read by ThriveNotSurvive

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Last post by sisoon at 4:17 PM on Monday, May 25th, 2026 Total messages: 683

 

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Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS by lordhasaplan?

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Last post by sisoon at 4:17 PM on Monday, May 25th, 2026 Total messages: 499

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