Topic is Sleeping.
Abcd89 (original poster member #82960) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, May 3rd, 2024
So for 2 years I have worked on me. I had a breakdown and I dragged myself through the days. The pain was unbearable. I wanted to die rather than face another day.
Today I鈥檝e had some amazing things happen. I have worked so much on friendships. I was pretty isolated 2 years ago. Today I had three different, unconnected people contact me and talk about some really big stuff. Personal stuff. It was great. Plus text after text from different people.
So my thought for Friday is remember work on yourself. Connect with people. Everyone. I smiled and chatted even when I was dying inside. One good thing to come out of this shitstorm.
gr8ful ( member #58180) posted at 6:28 PM on Friday, May 3rd, 2024
Great to see your growth @Abcd89!
Keep going 馃憡
Perdita1 ( member #67654) posted at 7:33 PM on Friday, May 3rd, 2024
Such a lovely update, and a great reminder. As humans connection is so important.
BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 7:47 PM on Friday, May 3rd, 2024
You're my hero today.
What great advice and an excellent role model.
"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:42 PM on Friday, May 3rd, 2024
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades - Children (1 still at home) Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBS 2018 Cease & Desist sent spring 2021"Hello鈥揗y name is Chaos鈥揧ou f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 12:21 PM on Saturday, May 4th, 2024
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 12:32 PM on Saturday, May 4th, 2024
That is wonderful and inspiring. Thank you!
Husband had six month affair with co-worker. Found out 7/2020. Married 20 years at that point; two teenaged kids. Reconciling.
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 2:24 AM on Sunday, May 5th, 2024
That鈥檚 awesome that you recognize your efforts to connect with others and how important those connections are!
I find myself having to push myself sometimes to get out there and make new friends and maintain the friendships I have. It鈥檚 so hard when you are going through rough times.
I am glad it felt good to be there for your friends. Sounds like they value your thoughts and feel safe with you!
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
Topic is Sleeping.
